I don’t claim to give advice on my own site, but this site is a cracker for anyone seeking stepmom/mum guidance: Becoming a Stepmom
And the book was a real help in the early days.
Striving to be me again, and raise two children well, by the age of 40!
The travellings of Bella and her folks!
The many jumbled boxes where I collect my thoughts, rants and affirmations
Chewing the cud with the thinkers of the world.